Basically what I’m trying to say is, if you’re not considered one of the top 20% of “high-value” men or whatever, chances are, a lot of women hate you off sight!

Pretty whiny IMHO.

In my experience, men are often guilty of aiming too high and are resistant to dating what is a realistic woman.

I am no looker and I never lacked for dates. I dated in my age range and was realistic about the women I asked out. I'm happily married now.