I totally agree. In my first marriage I did not make my ex enough of a priority.

I learned from that mistake. This time she knows that she is the, not a, priority.

We make sure that we speak together for 30-60 minutes. Almost every day.

When she says "how was your day?" what she really means is "talk to me." So I don't just say "fine," I expand. Then she can expand on her day.. Working well for us!