Looks do matter. But they are a starting point, not the end all be all. I never contacted a woman to whom I was not attracted.

And sometimes, there was only one date. She was attractive buuuuuuut..... Like we all do while dating.

I meet for a first date with this gal who is a knockout. Things are going well and she begins to complain about her ex and how he cheated her out of her house. And how if she wanted to burn it down she would actually set the fire to the east because the wind usually blows to the west (I am making none of this up, btw)….. And I realize “You’ve been thinking about this a lot.”

Check please!